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Rating: 8.7 Overall, a very good coming-of-age drama that accurately portrays the struggles of an Asian American adolescent trying to find himself, carried out by authentic, yet humorous writing and a powerful performance from Joan Chen.

Very Good Direction (The direction on a macroscale is very good as they set the area and time-period very well (2000s, Bay Area); the direction on a microscale is great as you see how the characters' emotions and relationships change in the interpersonal scenes, and this might be one of the most accurate portrayals of Asian American adolescence I have seen; the direction of actors is very good as it feels like everyone's performance is elevated; the storytelling is very good as it tells a coming-of-age story through both the Asian-American lens and the lens from someone who grew up in the 2000s), Good to Very Good Acting (Good to Very Good from Izaac Wang (Shows a wide range of emotions as you can see how he changes his personality to fit in, all while being incredibly anxious/feeling lost), Very Good to Great from Joan Chen (Delivers a very powerful performance as the matriarch in the family as she tries her best to hold the family together while also trying to pursue her own passions; her final monologue is truly Oscar worthy as it comes second to Ellen Burstyn's Red Dress monologue in how emotional and well executed it is), Good from the rest of the cast (Really emulates the time-period and adolescence)), Good to Very Good Story (The concept is simple and self-explanatory as it is an Asian-American, coming-of-age story set in 2000s Fremont; the plot structure is pretty simple (short and to the point); flow between sequences is very good; the character writing is great as you really get a grasp of what each character in the family is going through (especially the protagonist and the mother)), Great Screenplay (The dialogue is great as it mimics the time-period/location/age of the characters; the Cantonese dialogue is used very well as it helps show the identity of the family and show this dichotomy of being an Asian American in that time-period; the emotional dialogue is very powerful as it invokes a lot of strong emotions in both the cast and the audience; the humor is very true to the time and well written; the symbolism is very powerful as it realistically shows Asian-American Identity and adolescence; the foreshadowing is pretty standard for a coming-of-age story), Pretty Good to Good Score (Helps with establishing the tone, especially in the more depressing scenes), Good Cinematography (Enjoyed the how they interweaved 2000s camcorder shots in with the standard shots, and I felt the more large scale shots did a good job at showing the emotions of the characters (especially the protagonist)), Very Good Editing (Feels very polished and interjects the message/social-media scenes very well), , Pretty Bad Visual Effects (Feels pretty tacky and out of place), Good Production Design (Did a good job in emulating 2000s Fremont, CA), Pacing is pretty fast as it tries to go through a decent amount in its short runtime (but there really could not have been any more runtime that could've been added), Climax is executed very well as it is the epiphany/lowest for the protagonist and displays an incredible monologue from the mother (showing her identity in relation to her family and personal ambitions), Tone feels like a coming-of-age movie set in 2000s Bay Area (and executes this very well), Saw the Texas Premiere at SXSW.

I saw last year's nominated documentary short "Nai Nai and Wai Po" without realizing that "Didi" was the fictionalized autobiography of that film's creator, Sean Wang. It didn't hit home to me until I saw the character of the grandma in "Didi," who was featured in the short film and is Sean Wang's actual grandmother. So that's all very cool.

"Didi" is very funny, and hits a lot of the targets about navigating adolescence and all its terrors that most of us who've lived through it would expect it to. I saw it with my 15 and 13 year old sons, and was a bit disappointed that it didn't seem to resonate more with them than it did. But I liked it.

It's mostly about a kid who thinks he always has to be something that others want him to be before he's had a chance to figure out what he wants to be himself. It also touches on what it's like to be "othered" by your racial identity (in this case Asian) without being preachy about it or making its audience feel like it's getting homework.

Not a groundbreaking film, but a nice alternative if you're looking for something beyond the typical summer movie fare.

Grade: A-

Watched this at the 2024 Sundance Film Festival.

Sean Wang perfectly captures the drama, cringe comedy of teenage life, and the Asian American culture with tender sweet performances, good camerawork, and fun characters to explore. Wang's direction on the humor aspects, character personalities and writing felt genuine to the setting and many of the themes on culture, friendship, growing up, and reality is well-handled with the maturity of the direction and writing.

There are uses of 2000's internet culture and media that felt strong and interesting and it is clear that Wang understands how internet culture works and how children are able to act. Because many of the child performances are good and Issac Wang is the star stealer of the entire movie, alongside with Joan Chen.

As someone who is Asian American, many of the themes, culture approaches and the characters were emotionally interesting and it felt purposeful and touching. I personally connected with the characters and what Wang was trying to tell. The humor is good as well.

Some small gripes are that I felt some of the lightening could be better in certain nighttime settings and some of the dialogue could be improved. Overall, this could have turned into a cheesy and annoying movie but with Wang's direction and writing, it becomes a thought-provoking yet tender sweet coming of age movie.

Dìdi is Sean Wang's directorial debut feature and I felt very compelled a day after watching it to write a little review. The film brings us into Sean's semi-autobiographical tale of Chris, a Taiwanese American 13 year old growing up in the late 2000s in Fremont, CA.

If you know Sean's work, you understand how much depth and visual finesse he brings to his short documentaries. His transition into fiction filmmaking after his masterpiece (recently Oscar® Nominated!) short doc, Nai Nai & Wài Pó, plays with the overlapping characteristics of doc filmmaking and narrative filmmaking in such a unique and transformative way. Even casting his own grandmother to play Chris' grandmother in the film blends this idea of his own family and personal documentation blending into his narratives.

Sean mentioned that the root of this film is a dissection of shame and what it means to be a 1st generation teenager growing up in America, which entails coming to terms with our parents struggles in assimilation, but also finding a way of coping with our otherness in the face of becoming "American."

The backdrop of all of these periods of growth and self-discovery align at the birth of Facebook and crux of MySpace where our identities are formed and shaped by what we put on the internet and the image we curate; so many of the dramatic moments in the film are simply clicks of a mouse on certain tabs or icons on a computer screen. Watch this film in a theater and listen to the audible gasps at certain clicks that Chris chooses to make. It takes the budding desktop film idea noodled around with in the mid 2010s and forms a wonderful dramatic use of film form that enhances the found footage and skater film techniques.

The authenticity of the film also finds its way in how it portrays the adolescent behavior. Dìdi doesn't shy away from the toxic aspects of growing up in male friend groups, the rampant homophobia, violence, isolation, and sometimes casual as well as overt racism that weaves in and out of Chris's life.

But the secret sauce in what makes this film so deep is the lasting moments of silence that are brought to life in wonderful portrait and painterly cinematography by his creative partner and DP, Sam Davis. Sam, is an incredibly talented filmmaker in his own right, but it's in his mastery of the close-up in both Dìdi and Nai Nai & Wài Pó that connects us with Sean's personal history and truth that would be otherwise impossible to truly grasp.

It's watching Chris listen to his mom and his sister. These beautiful glimpses into Sean's own reflection of his family that play as a beautiful contrast to the comedic and adrenaline tempo catalyzed by the skater and adolescent influence.

This film is gonna go down as a landmark in Asian American cinema, 1st Gen Immigrant Diaspora Cinema, an authentic insight into growing up in the Bay Area, a Sundance gem, but more importantly as a really splendid period peace that takes me back to a really formative period in my own life balancing so many of the aspects of youth, belonging, and shame that Sean illustrates.

After you watch this film, I'd encourage you to find clips of Sean talking about the making of this film and the struggle to separate yourself from the personal but also wield it as the most powerful tool in your arsenal as a filmmaker. Listen to Sean mention Spike Jonze as one of his core influences in transitioning from a filmer to a filmmaker. The boundaries and conventions of skate videos being broken in order to turn into innovative cinema. It's some of the finest form of breaking down cinematic gatekeeping.

This film joins Stand By Me, Ratcatcher, Minding The Gap, Florida Project, and Rushmore as one of the great coming of age films. It's been lovely to get to know Sean and Sam this past year and I'm very proud to call them both peers and inspirations. Go watch Dìdi and give Sean and Sam their well deserved Oscars.

This was a pleasant surprise. "Dídi" is a wonderful little indie film that more than delivers on the potential of its coming of age premise, and breaks new ground for the genre by finding unique ways to develop its characters.

The film offers an honest and touching look inside the life of a young Taiwanese-American teen as he navigates the awkward turbulences and heartbreaks of adolescence (some familiar/relatable, and others not as much). As the film progresses, Chris, the young central character, strains to discover himself and find his place in the world. We watch as he grows up and is forced to learn many of life's universal lessons, all while charting his own unique course through youth.

It's a familiar premise, but Sean Wang does something new and special with it, straying from the formula and imbuing the whole thing with subtle touches of realism, many of which I've never seen captured quite the same way in film before (HBO's Euphoria has a few moments which are comparable, but they're far more sensationalized than anything here). I really appreciated these novelties, as well as the film's frequently experimental approach/style, as they helped make things feel consistently fresh and new. Also, the fact that the timeline of Chris' childhood happens to line up almost exactly with my own made the whole thing especially enjoyable. They captured growing up in the 2000s perfectly.

I could definitely see this becoming a breakout hit, and to be honest, it may be the best film I've seen at a Sundance premiere (admittedly a limited selection, but I am from Utah, so I try to make it to the festival every few years). In any event, I'm looking forward to watching this again once it gets a wide release to see how it holds up on second viewing.

The debut feature from writer/director Sean Yang. Following the ups & downs (mostly downs from his standpoint) of an imminent high schooler played by Izaac Wang, as he tries to find a place for himself in the world even though his heavily female household (mom played by Joan Chen, gran & older sister) doesn't help things along. Having a set group of friends (themselves outcasts), Wang can only go so far so when he meets a girl he fancies, Mahaela Park, he falls back on his adolescent antics (since he doesn't have any history w/the opposite sex) which leads him into a romantic cul-de-sac. However there's a light at the end of his tunnel when he meets some skateboarders who take him in (after he boasts he knows how to shoot skate vids) where Wang can finally come into his own. Essentially an Asian inflected tale similar to Jonah Hill's lone directing gig, 2018's Mid90's, a similar tale of a latch key kid raised by a single mother who finds solace w/the skateboard set, Yang's film gets the early days of internet fame (when certain vids would go viral) correct but Wang doesn't come off as the nicest of tykes (at one point he pees into his sister's body lotion container after she catches him using it w/o her permission) so when he rants & raves about his life (a life which offers a home & food on the table on the reg), you kind of want to give him a good ear pull but hopefully this warts & all approach will push Yang in a more unexpected direction in his next effort.

You can always tell when scenes about the Asian American experience are included specifically so the non-Asian American audience notices. Like when there's a lingering shot on guests' shoes as they walk through the house, or when there's a pause after a particularly harsh reprimand from an elder. For the Asian American audience, these moments aren't out of the ordinary-and sometimes we look puzzled when we hear other moviegoers laugh or cringe or exclaim a knowing "Oh no, the shoes." But for the non-Asian American audience, these moments are foreign, highlighting the differences between the people on screen and themselves. Even if the family lives in the suburbs and the children are second generation American who speak perfect English.

In that way, the experiences of Didi's protagonist, Chris ("Wang Wang" to his friends and "Didi" to his mother)-the microaggressions directed at him, his shortcomings when reacting to his mother and friends, and even the way he codeswitches his name-are presented to the non-Asian American audience as a way of highlighting the different struggles and paths toward growth in an Asian American's coming-of-age story.

Even though adolescent angst has so many universal elements across all American experiences of it, audiences can relate to the awkwardness and shame and uncertainty portrayed in movies like Boyhood and Eighth Grade-and particularly the desire to fit in at school, with friends, or among family-differently than in Didi. Because there's a uniqueness in the tension of Didi's titular character. It's not just about fitting in to a world that is unrecognizable, one without the freedom and infinite possibilities of childhood imaginings but instead burdened by the rigid structures of socially imposed order, an inherent hierarchy perpetuated by class and culture in inculcated in our youth by media consumption and unspoken mores. There's also a cultural tension in Didi, a desire not to be like your sister or the other Asian American kids, to shirk the stereotypes and be less Asian (and more white). Chris must navigate fitting into an external world that is both his and not his, that is extremely familiar and yet so separate from his world at home-as evidenced by the different names he uses with his mother versus his old friends versus his new friends

By setting the movie in the early 2000s, Didi asks the audience to remember our own fledgling teenage years. And in that reflection, the Asian American audience sees ourselves (thematically, if not specifically) on screen. And the non-Asian American audience is meant to notice the differences, but still relate to the awkwardness and the desire to make friends and lose your virginity and steal from your siblings and yell at your mom. By noticing these differences in a quintessentially American coming-of-age story, the foreign moments become familiar and their own uniquely experienced adolescence becomes a little more universal.

This film won the Sundance Audience Award. You'll see why fast. My packed audience gasped and reacted to much of it and we were fully involved and invested. Wang is an Oscar nominee for his documentary short starring his grandmother, who he cast here as the lead's grandmother. She's an amateur, but a delight. We get to see a Fremont, California 13 year old Taiwan American attempt to overcome his social and academic issues. He's a somewhat interesting kid. I'm really not interested in puberty cinema, but at least it doesn't outstay its welcome at 94 minutes. I later learned that his name is Mandarin for little brother! Big sister Vivian is soon off to UCSD. Grandma thinks it's too far away and stresses the importance of Didi getting into Stanford. That's a pipe dream at this point for the aloof student hanging out with a bad element. Shirley Chen is pretty good as Vivian. She has shadings to her acerbic character later when she opts to become sort of a second mom to him. Joan Chen is tremendous as the mom. She keeps pursuing her artistic dream by painting in a spare room and submitting her work to competitions. She once even dreamed of having a studio in NY. Chen is a pro's pro and delivers late in the film conveying her frustrated dreams. The family has first world problems as they live in a gorgeous home financed by the breadwinner off winning bread in Taiwan. The scene involving another Asian family at a restaurant was great. The other mother brags about her children's accomplishments while Didi's mom seems crestfallen and embarrassed about her own. It's not exactly a family film with all the cursing, sexuality and even violence. But it's a wonderfully entertaining coming of age film that will be memorable. Wang will be directing films with huge budgets within five years if he so chooses. Izaac Wang, no relation AFAIK, is really engaging as the lead. He can be the Asian Michael Cera. Or he can just be himself.

Greetings again from the darkness. 'Coming of Age' films typically lean heavily into either comedy or tragedy. In his first feature film, writer-director Sean Wang (Oscar nominated for his documentary short NAI NAI & WAI PO, 2023) takes a different approach. While he certainly injects some humor, it's isolation and awkwardness - that feeling of not fitting in - that takes center stage. It's quite possible, even likely, that some of this is autobiographical for director Wang. That's a safe statement since most every teenager can relate to bits of this story.

Chris Wang (played by Izaac Wang) is introduced to us as he's blowing up a neighbor's mailbox. We don't get the full story until later, but it doesn't take long for us to figure out that this kid is trying (too) hard to fit in with his group of buddies, as they each transition from junior high to high school. It's the summer of 2008, and Chris lives with his mother, grandmother, and sister ... and he's miserable and lost.

Mom (a terrific Joan Chen, LUST CAUTION, 2007) is a talented artist, beaten down by the demands of being a single mom to two constantly bickering kids, and a demanding mother-in-law for whom nothing is ever good enough. Nai Nai (Chang Li Hua) is played by director Wang's real-life grandmother, and though her health is slowly fading, she doesn't understand the social or family dynamics of the era. Vivian (Shirley Chen) is the sister/daughter who will be leaving home for college in one month. She is constantly annoyed by her little brother's extreme pranks and immaturity, as well as the unfair judgments of Nai Nai. Their father is working in Taiwan, creating even more stress for these folks in Fresno.

Identity plays a huge role for Chris. His friends have always called him Wang-Wang, and at home he's referred to as Didi (little brother). A group of older skaters offers him his first chance to be "Chris" and 'half-Asian', and he takes it. He wants so much to be part of the big boy club, yet he fails hard when his crush Madi (Mahaela Park) initiates 'the nervous game.' He also flops at being the filmer for the skate kids, and his sister counsels with the age-old warning, "Don't do anything stupid." Of course, we know he will.

Being the summer of 2008, we see camcorders, MySpace, AOL Instant Messenger, A WALK TO REMEMBER, and flip phones, amongst other reminders of the era. It's interesting to see the first group of teens embrace the early days of social media, especially with the amateurish videos that slammed YouTube in those days. In this regard, director Wang has delivered a period piece, even if it's from less than 20 years ago. Google search also plays a starring role.

Most impressive is how the film, and the actors, capture the emotions we all recognize. Anger, confusion, and frustration are prevalent for Chris and his mother, the latter of whom gets a wonderful scene where she relays her perspective on life. It's heart-wrenching and Joan Chen nails it. As Chris, Izaac Wang details the absurd squirrel story which highlights his advanced level of social awkwardness. Included are references to Ang Lee and Spike Jonze, and the emphasis on Chris not being a stereotypical Asian-American. When summer ends, the braces come off, and Chris strolls into high school ... we easily understand why this won an Audience Award at Sundance. The digital version even includes some bonus features ('the making of DIDI').

Now available on digital and coming to Blu-ray on October 29, 2024.

About as authentic as you can possibly get in its time and place, culture, and coming of age details. It's a reminder of how hard growing up can be, with social media a depressing presence, the feeling of saying or doing all the wrong things, and then on top of it dealing with little lines like "you're pretty cute for an Asian" which hit like a dagger. The relationships between the family members are brilliantly written (including the dad working overseas notably playing zero role), and the film defies any kind of simple feel-good turn in its plotting, yet somehow leaves us with the feeling that the boy will survive all this, maybe the visual arts club being the first step to finding his path. Great performances all around, with my favorite moment being the grandmother going on and on, exaggerating the harm coming to the boy's future life. Also loved the on-location filming in Fremont, CA, with the houses (outside and inside), parks, hills, streets, etc all resonating.

Chris Wang fondly called as Didi at home, has a sister who is about to move to college. His dad is in Taiwan, leaving his mom to run the home on her own while tolerating the nagging mother in law. Mom's a painter and is still struggling to make it on her own. With high school days nearing, Didi just want to be someone he is not ready to be yet. He is a nervous little boy who is desperate to make this transition into this cool teen, he just ends up messing things unintentionally. Didi depicts these few days of his life where he gets to know himself and his loved ones a little better.

This is a phase of life which one tends to relate irrespective of which part of the world one is from. You want to impress your crush, want to look cool infront of your friends and ofcourse be the popular kid while be a rebel at home and it's the age where you tend to be rude at home. The director Sean Wang succeeds in capturing all of this perfectly and since it's semi autobiographical, he was able to give it a personal touch. Be it the brother - sister bonding or the inner struggle he has, with only a bot left to be his only friend, these were touchy moments but the best ones was reserved for Joan Chen as the mother and it is these scenes towards the end that took the film a notch higher. Or probably it's my age that though I relate to Didi, I understand the mother's sacrifices more.

There is no point in this movie. I thought the 7.8 rating would be any good and went ahead to watch the film. This is just a boring drama movie at best, don't expect anything extraordinary story-wise or any twists and turns. People who gave a 7+ rating are definitely ones who could relate to this movie from their childhood. I couldn't at all so this movie is not for me.

Also some scenes where quite shocking to look at especially just for dramatic effect in order to compensate for the story. I am pretty sure that no sibling or anyone in their right minds would do anything like what they have shown lol.

Didi nails the essence of the teenage experience, capturing that awkward, in-between phase where we desperately want to fit in but have no idea who we really are. The film beautifully portrays how, during this time, we constantly guess what others expect from us, often making decisions out of fear rather than true choice.

Identity and Fitting In

One of the most memorable moments is when Chris tries to fit in with a group of older kids by asking for a cigarette, even though it's clear he's never smoked before. This scene speaks volumes about teenage insecurity. Chris assumes smoking is what's expected, so he jumps at the chance, only to be surprised when one of the older boys casually declines, saying he doesn't smoke. It's a subtle but powerful example of how, at that age, we're so afraid of being judged that we forget we actually have the freedom to choose.

The Parent-Teen Dynamic

The film also does an excellent job of exploring the relationship between Chris and his mother. At that age, we often push our parents away, trying to create distance to avoid embarrassment. Chris does this constantly, making excuses and trying to seem "cool" in front of his peers. What's funny and relatable is that the older kids don't care at all. In fact, they're more interested in having a genuine conversation with his mom. This contrast highlights how, as we grow older, we realize that the things we were once ashamed of like our parents' presence don't matter as much. The film cleverly uses these interactions to remind us how much we create unnecessary barriers in our youth.

Hiding Your True Self

Another standout moment is when Chris takes down his posters, an act that symbolizes the struggle of hiding your true self. At this age, we often hide our interests and passions because we're afraid they won't be "cool" or accepted. Dìdi touches on this theme in a meaningful way, showing how our fear of standing out can lead us to conceal the very things that make us unique. The film's message is clear: the things we're passionate about are what define us, and embracing them is what helps us grow into our true selves.

The Comparison Trap

Lastly, the film captures the emotional weight of comparison during adolescence. Chris is overwhelmed by feelings of inadequacy he has fewer friends, he doesn't have a girlfriend, and his family isn't like others. These are common struggles that many of us faced growing up. The film conveys how, at that age, everything feels like too much to handle, but as time passes, we begin to find ourselves and accept who we are. The director uses Chris's journey to show that while these feelings are intense, they are also temporary.

Final Thoughts

We've all been there overthinking every little decision, scared to make the wrong move, and hiding parts of ourselves to fit in. Dìdi captures that experience with humor, heart, and a refreshing dose of reality. It's a beautiful reminder that the awkwardness of growing up is what ultimately helps us discover who we truly are.

Honestly did not expect to be so emotionally moved, or laugh so much going into this. There's relatable elements in the story to everyone who's grown up in America as an immigrant, or more generally in the 90's or 2000's. Joan Chen was incredibly endearing and beautifully soft spokenly loving toward her Wang Wang, and like many other adolescents he didn't realize just how special his mother was. A lot of what Wang Wang's character goes through sparked memories for me that were melancholy. Overall I'm glad that I saw this and I think it's a great indie that has the right stuff to be worth watching. If you're in the mood for something family oriented but in a much realer way than most Disney movies could be, give this a watch.

Sean Wang's directorial debut presents a profoundly emotional coming-of-age drama, and it is evident that "Didi" rightfully earned the audience award at Sundance Film Festival. The portrayal of Chris Wang (Isaac Wang)-endearingly referred to as Didi by his mother yet mockingly labeled Wang Wang by his peers-offers a refreshing perspective on the tumultuous transition from adolescence to teenage years.

The protagonist grapples with confusion, often attributing his perceived failures to those around him: his older sister Vivian (Shirley Chen), who initially serves as an antagonist until she recognizes his profound sense of isolation; his overbearing mother, Chungsing (Joan Chen), an aspiring artist facing criticism from her demanding mother-in-law and rebellious children while her husband remains absent in Taiwan; and his classmates, who simply regard him as peculiar. Chris seeks validation from a group of older skaters and his so-called friends at school, yet each interaction only highlights the inadequacies he feels within himself.

The chemistry presented between mother and son in this film is strikingly authentic. "Didi" gains additional strength whenever the focus shifts to Chen, who conveys subtle nuances of hurt and frustration without ever overacting. It requires a remarkable actress to deliver a monologue that may seem familiar from countless other films, such as her heartfelt conversation with Chris, while ensuring it does not come across as clichéd or predictable. Joan Chen masterfully executes this delicate balance, creating a compelling dynamic with her younger, yet equally talented co-star Izaac Wang. Their performances are exceptional and will undoubtedly leave a lasting impression. Highly recommended!

Amazing cast and writing. Beautifully shot. So many subtle moments I related to. I felt a special relationship with each and every character. Perfectly encapsulates growing up. It's funny, charming, nostalgic, and somehow heart-warning and heart-breaking at the same time. Such a bittersweet watch. So real and perfect.

I am going to be thinking about this movie for a long time. I need to go call my mom now.

This is what Jonah hill was trying to do with mid 90's. Everyone please go watch this and support it.

I have so much to say about this movie but i can't even get into it right now. My boyfriend and i have been talking about this movie all night.

Doesn't deserve the rating that it currently has. Although somewhat entertaining, it lacks substance and in the end, it's just a flat C movie. There's no direction other than a Young man, failing everything including getting along with his family that's dysfunctional. Everything he touches turns against him and you don't really see him growing out of it or understanding why he's even there. The implied meanings of a fatherless kid doesn't really go over very well. This could've been a much better movie if it wasn't so loose and its interpretation of everything around it. At the end, there's no real hope of recovering what could've been a decent movie if I'd been tightened up with the script and the plot line.

I am not sure if I should, but in case my mind is wired differently (I reckon it is, but that's beside the point) ... I am talking about Identity ... as in trying to figure out who one is, while growing up and having to satisfy so many needs ... some of them ones own ... so no pun intended.

I was surprised that this was playing as Sneak Preview ... as in this was going to make it into cinemas? But it makes more than sense. Someone in the screening asked me after the movie was over what it was called. He said the movie depicted exactly what it was like growing up for him. So the movie is really having the finger on the pulse ... well for people of a certain generation. But also others I am sure. I am a bit older but I remember many of the things depicted here.

If teenagers nowadays (or in the future) will have the same reaction? Tough to say ... does anyone remember "myspace"? I think I still have an account there ... I liked that I was able to do blogs there ... once upon a time.

But let's not get sidetracked ... because this is just a small part of the story ... a story that has so many things to focus on. It's about love, it is about siblings, it is about family ... it is about being a non-american in America ... the last point might be telling when it comes to the half part of him ... a small slip of the tongue - well nothing planned at least. But showing once again the identity crisis.

What is our main character good at. He has so many feelings ... he is not always the good guy ... what he does at times ... well some things feel mean spirited ... but the focus, the guidance is missing ... or there are way too many things raining down on him ... how to pick one and concentrate on it? A well done movie to say the least ...

There is a whole genre of movies dedicate to coming of age, only they are almost always idealized, dramatized, exaggerated and/or strident. Didi feels very real, without being over the top in anything. In a way, it's a boring film, because it presents early adolescence as it truly is.

The story is about a small Asian kid who lacks confidence or life experience. His dad is away and he lives with his sister, his mom and his grandmother. He's like an Iron John poster boy. With this setup, most stories would have gone towards the bombastic life changing experiences, seen through the bright lens of hyperactive teens. Not Didi. It may be autobiographical, it certainly felt that way. Remember when you were so young you couldn't even comprehend why the thing you were doing were stupid?

Bottom line: its greatest strength is also the movie's greatest weakness. By being true to its characters, it left out the entertainment of its viewers. So you might like it a lot, if you're in the mood for honest self reflection, or maybe you will feel bored by it. Either way, I personally liked it.

Chris/WangWang's story resonated deeply with me. I, too, struggled to fit in during high school, feeling like an outcast trying to find my place. I related to his efforts to connect with others and find acceptance.

I also understood the challenges of dealing with parents who may not be supportive or present. It's tough when one parent bears the burden of responsibility and sometimes blames the child.

However, I took away an important message: we can't change the past, but we can work on becoming better versions of ourselves. By doing so, we can attract positive relationships and move forward. It's a valuable lesson about personal growth and the circle of life.

"Didi" does appear to be a movie crafted with considerable passion and vigor, embodying a story that seems profoundly personal to its creator. It undoubtedly possesses the kind of warmth many viewers would admire.

However, my experience diverges from the majority sentiment!

Why? Well, to engage with a story, particularly one centered on the theme of coming of age, not only do I require a connection on a deeper level with the protagonist, I also require some elements that would resonate with my own experiences during that particular phase in my life.

Regrettably, neither of these connections materialized in this instance.

Despite my best efforts, I found it challenging to empathize with the main character, nor did I encounter any specific aspects that mirrored my own past.

Interestingly, I felt a much stronger emotional connect towards the mother, who consistently brought comfort to the screen. It was during those brief moments that I sensed the writing attaining the kind of emotional resonance I was actively searching for the whole time.

I wished for poignance.